Another wine night with the girls

I have really been so busy (or lazy) the past year that I haven’t even blogged about our girls nights even once! So now I wanna make sure I get to blog about it, especially so that I no longer work with them, so I miss hanging out with them girls!

Grace is very gracious (indeed!) to invite us in her home every time for wine night. She and her husband got lots of wine that they do not mind if we finish off three bottles in one night :)

So this time, Grace prepared different cheeses for us to eat with the white and red wines she opened for us. There was also sardine pasta, and nilagang baka for dinner. Yum!

Later on, Grace decided to play pusoy, the Filipino version of poker, and for added fun, she brought out coins for betting. Hehe. I didn’t win every time, plus I was completely wasted from work for the whole week, I decided to take a nap. And with friends, you cannot really trust them to leave you alone while you sleep on the couch. So when I woke up around 2 hours later, I saw photos of myself sleeping. (I was lucky they didn’t paint my face with lipstick or charcoal – which is the most common thing friends do)

I came back with the group while they talked about serious stuff about work, frustrations and chismis hehe. Too bad I missed Grace’s tutorial on how to make relationships work. But we all did enjoy checking out the Kamasutra deck of cards (I should get one! I am sure my Michael will approve?).

So we haven’t decided yet when the next wine night will be, but I am hoping we could push thru with a Valentine wine night!

I miss my girls! (and their boys too haha!)

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This time last year… (January)

… I was in Catanduanes for work. If you look at the Philippine map, Catanduanes is the island at the eastern-most portion of Luzon, and it is usually rainy at that part of the country during this time of year.

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zahflo’s 2011 Highlights

Okay, so this is probably the millionth blog that has that phrase in the title, but anyway… 2011 was literally a roller coaster ride for me. There were a lot of changes, figurative bombs that exploded that left me like I was hit by a train, and there were ends and beginnings that made me feel like a zombie and a floating spirit at the same time.

So probably none of those made sense, so let me just walk you through my 2011:

January:

I got previously assigned to another division at my workplace that inspects power plants all over the country. So I got to go to Catanduanes (traumatic Zest Air flight, gosh), and to nearby Tarlac and Bulacan (with the worst “host” ever).

February:

We went to Ifugao to inspect a min-hydro power plant. We went to the famous Banaue Rice Terraces – clouded with thick fog – didn’t see the majestic sight! :( I settled for a postcard instead. But the people who welcomed us there were very warm and nice. Even met the Governor of Ifugao! He was so cool, you would think he was the governor’s son. :)

March:

Lex’s first “moving up” program in school, where he finished Kindergarten, second in class! Of course it was a small class and they were given more one-on-one learning time with the teacher, which helped Lex excel in class. I was the proud momma!

April:

Ah the big secret surprise! My Mama’s 60th birthday. I was so glad to have the help of my aunt and other relatives to make my Mama’s birthday surprise a very surprising one. The best surprise for her? When her classmates from highschool came, after more than 40 years of not seeing each other! Four of them arrived, they were looking around and asked, “Where is Tess?”. When my Mama saw them, she was like, “who are they?”, then their eyes lit up and they started calling each other’s names! It was a delightful sight.

Of course at the end of the day, my Mama expressed her appreciation. :) It was indeed a happy 60th for her.

May:

We got so busy at work. We went out of town twice a week, going to different provinces for an information campaign. We went to Ilocos, Bohol, Tagaytay and Iloilo. We were working all sorts of jobs – writers, secretariat, computer technicians, resource speakers. We were at the airport 4 times a week. We got to go to some nice places, but the tight schedule didn’t give us a chance to really enjoy. But it was quite an experience.

Then we moved to a new apartment. It is a really nice place, newly built and had a really nice bathroom (not too fancy but better than all the other rental apartments we have seen). The best feature of all – no flooding here.

June:

Pressure at work was getting tighter. We went to Camarines Sur for the last of the out-of-town info dissemination. It was an overnight thing so we were so exhausted and we never got to enjoy the place. And no, I didn’t see Mayon volcano, that is a few hours away from where we went :(

But yeah, my US visa was approved, so all is well in the world.

July:

Lex got hospitalized. He usually gets sick when he is about to celebrate his birthday. Glad we have that healthcard, otherwise it would be so hard and stressful to think about the finances.

At the end of this month, I also had to deal with a “bomb” that practically broke my heart, but I decided to hold on a little bit.

August:

Work was getting more serious, with meetings here and there, trying to deal with politics and government bureaucracy that are very very frustrating. But who cares about them, at the end of the day, I was happy to be planning for my upcoming US trip!

September:

My birthday came and went without any funfare. But I wasn’t concerned about that because I was so looking forward to my US trip!

Sept. 21 – my eventful flight to Virginia via Japan and Detroit. Long story short, I almost didn’t get on a plane, I got stranded in Detroit for a night and I had to share a room with a kid. Okay, a younger guy. Just being practical, who wants to pay $70 for 6 hours anyway? So we split it and caught our flight the next morning.

The rest of the story of course, is here.

October:

After spending 3 weeks in the US, I had to bid farewell to my beloved and come home to my little man.

Immediately after arriving, I turned in my resignation. After 8 years and 10 months, I decided to move on to where the opportunity is.

November:

I started immediately at my new job. It was a big adjustment on my part, because my first ever work experience is in a government agency, where the culture is different from a private company’s workplace. But this company used to be a government run company, so a lot of folks here understand how I feel.

December:

I have been exposed to the new job enough to know that it is really very challenging, but exciting as well. I was able to get to know my colleagues during our out-of-town planning session, which was a good thing for me. Now I feel that I belong here with my new family.

Christmas was good. For the first time in 15 years, my family was all together. My parents and my brothers. All together. It is true that time heals all wounds. :)

New year, however, was another story.

So that was my roller coaster ride 2011. I hope 2012 will be smooth sailing. I do expect some storms, but I believe we can endure. And end the year with a positive, happy “bang!”

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Toughie new year

It’s supposed to be Happy New Year! But for me, well, it was a tough one, but still I am thankful that we are still alive and we still have a chance to make things better.

Lex, my Mama and I spent the new year at the hospital.

Last October, I booked for a room at the Manila Hotel, a five star hotel here in the country, one of the oldest and has a historical background (Gen. McArthur stayed there before, so they have McArthur suites). Everything was in order. We were gonna avoid the New Year’s Eve pollution and watch fireworks from our hotel window by the sea. Then Dec. 28 came and Lex had a high fever and he was vomiting.

By Dec. 29, 12am, he was confined to the hospital. And we stayed there until January 4. He had another bout of pneumonia, without the symptoms. No coughing.

Then there goes the issue on the finances. I have been bugging Lex’s dad to send in the payment for Lex’s healthcard. Which he sent on the day Lex was to be discharged from the hospital. Result? We had to pay almost PhP25,000 in partial hospital bills (because the bills until Dec. 31 was covered by the previous healthcard). Ahh there are more details that is so depressing to discuss.. Anyway, all in all, I was disappointed at how our New Year celebration went.

But then again, my son is well now, and there were means to pay for bills. We are not homeless. We still eat edible food. And I still have Internet connection. So, still, there is a lot to be thankful for. Of course deep in my heart, I wish it would have all happened as planned – with no disease or hospital involved.

I was thinking, the hospital, the prison and the funeral home – the only places where people would say “Please don’t come back here ever again”. All other businesses would want you back, to be a regular patron. Unfortunately, for the year 2011, I have been a patron of hospitals, with both my Mama and Lex confined twice, each. Please, Lord, keep us away from those horrible places this year.

Now, with the new job, I feel pressured (mainly because I am paranoid at making a mistake) and tired most of the time. My Feng Shui says I should watch out for my health. And my Mama reacted with a “you see???” Well, honestly, I want a massage. A pedicure. I want that Pho Hoa noodle soup every day (expensive for the average gal). I simply want to be pampered. But that is not the goal this month.

The goal this month is to wake up and flex some muscles (figuratively). Time to stop being lazy. Stop waiting for people to make me happy. Stop second guessing and actually have confidence in my judgment. And well, stop spending. Hehe.

It was a tough start, with all the negatives on the way. But I hope that after surfacing from the rubble we can all move forward, move fast and never look back. Be a toughie this year. :)

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Adjusting

A lot of “new things” have happened in the past 2 months, and so far I am still adjusting. One of the reasons I haven’t updated my blog for more than a month now!

Well, first off, I did take a 3-week vacation to the US and finally met my (hopefully) future family. It was overwhelming but I did enjoy my time there. A bit exhausting because of the long drive going around meeting my Michael’s family members, but still it was time well spent.

As soon as I got back from my vacation, I filed my resignation from my first ever job where I stayed (literally) for almost 9 years. It was really scary for me to resign because I have been so comfortable in that workplace, and it was the only workplace I have known since I got out of college. But it was time to leave my comfort zone and grab new opportunities that have not been available to me in my previous job.

So now I am on my first month in my new job. It is quite challenging because of the transition from a government workplace to a private company. Then I had to review my engineering lessons again! Oh gosh, I have almost forgotten how to “read” a single line diagram. My confidence level in terms of technical expertise is really low right now, but of course I am working on it. Plus it is a blessing to have a really competent and helpful colleagues who have been guiding me through the process.

Anyway, I know I have a lot of ideas about what to blog about, a lot of them are actually long overdue. I wanted to blog about specific places I have been to in Pennsylvania and show more photos, then blog about Lex’s new antics and struggles in school, and also blog about what I hope to “achieve” in the coming leap year.

Ah, lists.

I have a list of blogs to do.

List of books to read and CDs to listen to.

A list of people to keep in touch with.

Then the new year is approaching, which means another list of goals and resolutions.

I don’t wanna mention the dreaded list of all, but anyway, that will be part of the “resolutions”, which I hope will be achieved before the leap year ends.

I wish to do all these while I am continuously adjusting to my new life. :)

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Changes

I have always been uncomfortable with change. I guess everyone is. But as everyone who has gained wisdom over the years have said, change is necessary for growth. To go from good to better, it requires change.

So here I am at my new job, feeling excited but super scared at the same time. Afraid to fail and make a fool of myself. But also excited to contribute something good. And somehow see good results.

Change is good. Uncomfortable but good. Mind boggling but good. Hopefully, I would change for the better :)

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Grand Vacation Highlights

I am back home in Manila, and I’m finally able to sleep at night (Manila time). Back to work after 3 weeks of “rest” and travel, which is a good thing to keep my mind off being sad.

Anyway, I had a grand time exploring the western part of Pennsylvania with someone really special (emphasis on really special :) ) For the most part, a lot of time was eaten up by land travel, but it was a great way to see the fields and hills, and the trees that are colorful (something I never see back home!).

So my trip has mainly 2 categories: the places I’ve been, the food I have eaten. :) but I guess I cannot really blog about those separately, so let me share my experience through photographs instead!

Visit to Michael’s camp at Treasure Lake.

I had my first buffet salad at Hoss’. It was my first time to eat a pickled egg (the prurple eggin the photo). It tasted really good! I am going to make some here at home. :)

A hearty breakfast before starting a loong day :)

Mike taught me to drive the quad! It was quite easy, way easier than driving the car (which I had no idea would happen soon — I don’t know how to drive a car btw)

And yeah, I was able to drive the car in a place where we won’t get caught hehe. Great thing seatbelts were invented. Mike complained of the way I hit the breaks. :P

Spending time at camp with Mike’s parents. It has been a pleasure to be around them, and they even cheered when I finished my first can of beer!

We went to several Walmarts throughout my stay, which I genuinely enjoyed. I am not much of a girly shopping type, but I like grocery shopping. I saw some fruits and vegetables that I haven’t seen before! Educational! :)


The Elk Outlook. We were actually at the area of the Pennsylvania Wilds, and we were able to see some young elk around the protected area, but we left a bit early and didn’t get to see the elk gather in the field (they like to come out when it gets colder later in the day).

Driving through Caledonia Pike, which Michael thought was a shortcut. Maps can be very deceiving, and so Mike decided to take a shortcut to go to a burger place in Clearfield. It turned out to be an hour drive (or more?) through the middle of nowhere, our eyes open for possibly another bear that might come out (we did see a black bear run towards the road earlier). Next time, we will NOT take the road less traveled hehe.


Finally found civilization, and food! We went to the place where the world’s largest hamburger is. They have a really large burger that is $300, that can be shared by a group of people. But once in a while they have a competition for a single person to finish a very large burger. Ew.

Cooking at home during the cold, rainy weekend. Using the oven has added some heat to the house, which is good for me. And the smell of food is always a delight :)

The neighbor’s harvest. Mike’s neighbors are senior citizens, and are having some health challenges so Mike and I cleaned up their garden and took home the tomatoes and peppers! (ok, I helped a little, but Mike did all the work even when it started to rain)

Visit to Michael’s brothers. Both of them live in Carlisle, PA, and we had the chance to visit their respective homes. Larry and Karen treated us with a free hotel stay at Comfort Suites which is right across their coffee shop, the Courthouse Common Espresso Bar. We were also treated to dinner and late night drinks. Too bad I was just recovering from an illness that almost ruined my trip, so I didn’t get to drink much hehe. Plus I had a weird red-eye reaction to my meds (too early for halloween). It was so uncomfortable.

Bowling with the kids. We had bowling with Mike’s nephews Patrick and Brandon, and nieces Mackenzie and Anna that same evening, which we enjoyed. It was a dollar per game night, so we took advantage of it! (and the little girls almost beat us haha)

Next, we visited Tim and made a trip to his wife Jody’s horse ranch. I got to see some horses and she allowed me to ride one, which scared me to death! The horse was so big, my fear of heights started to overwhelm me. Jody’s little boy Rogue was way more confident that I was hehe.
Photos of me on the horse was taken by Rogue. Seems like he found another thing he would like to do!

Trip to Lancaster. This place is known for the Intercourse Canning Company which makes pickles and jams, and the Amish place. We walked in and out of Amish stores but did not buy anything major. A lot of the items were made in China (haha), so I ended up just buying jams that cannot be found back home.

We had late lunch at the Shady Maple smorgasbord, which served a LOT of food! While having our late lunch, Larry called and invited us to join his family for a haunted hayride at a haunted amusement park. IT was a blast! We went in two haunted houses and one haunted hayride in an actual corn field. It was an interesting amusement park, with several monsters walking around to scare you.

Motorcycle ride.


The sunny and warm days were spent motorcycle riding to different sites. Since we did not have the chance to go to New York and see Ground Zero, we decided to go visit the Flight 93 Memorial, where the fourth plane that was hijacked in Sept. 2001 crashed. It was a special memorial site for the passengers who prevented the plane from reaching its real target – the Whitehouse. However, only family members of those who died are allowed to the actual crash site.

On the way to the Flight 93 memorial, Mike decided to go through the Laurel Highlands to see a view of the river and waterfalls.

Then we went to the highest point in Pennsylvania, Mt. Davis. There was a tower where we could see the landscape, and I was scared to death! But the view was absolutely lovely, with the trees changing colors and the clear, blue sky.

We passed through the roads where we could see a view of the windmills, which were lovely! I took photos while the motorcycle was moving, and wow, look at some of the best ones!

On another day, we went to camp on the motorcycle. On the way, we stopped by DuBois and went in the Harley-Davidson store, which is quite unique. Mike bought me a Harley shirt as a belated birthday present. :)

Then we had early dinner at The Hitching Post, a bar which looked scary. Good thing Mike was wearing his Harley bandanna, which made him look like a tough biker you don’t wanna mess up with. Hehe. I felt safe, amidst the stares of some of the people there (I seem to have “invaded” a white man’s territory hehe). I enjoyed my chicken wings and beer. (and Mike is delighted to see me drink beer, I wonder why?)

From camp, we went to visit the Straubs brewery and two wineries and had our fill of different flavors.

The Eternal Tap at Straubs. You can actually stay here for an hour and just drink away, just make sure you don’t get drunk! (and you’re over 21yo)

On the way, we stopped by a tiny chapel at St. Mary’s.

Then we went to get a view of the Kinzua bridge which was rehabilitated after a tornado tore half of it in 2003. It was a lovely sight!



When we were not traveling, we visited Mike’s good friend Steve for morning or afternoon walks (exercise to burn the beer calories!).


I had so much fun at Steve’s house when he and his wife, carol, had us taste some of their collection of wines. There are a few ones which they made themselves! (my favorite among all the rest is Steve’s very own red wine. Instant buzz!)

After having several glasses of different flavors, Mike called it a night while he can still drive. But of course, it wasn’t the end of our evening. *wink wink!*

I didn’t take much photos when we were on our way to the airport, because I was feeling sooo sad! So here are some of the last photo we had together during the best vacation I have had so far!

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Just to update


at the backseat of a Harley

Things I have to blog about:
- trip to Lancaster, the Amish country
- motorcycle ride to Flight 93 memorial (9/11 plane crash site)
- my first haunted hayride and haunted house fun
- more food photos
- winery trip

In the meantime, I have to maximize my remaining week of the grand vacation! After this week, I will be on my long trip home, and back to work. So not looking forward to it (no offense to my coworkers, but heck, I’m sure we’d all feel that way!)

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Good food! –updated

The big advantage of having a special someone who cooks really well is that we don’t have to go out to insanely expensive restaurants to eat good food. Let me share what we have been having for the past week, all cooked by my Michael himself! (okay, I did cook adobo already, which he liked – thank God!)


omelet with spinach, mushrooms and cheese


vegetarian pizza, Michael made everything, even the whole wheat honey dough!


oatmeal apple crisp :)


fried green tomatoes :)


butternut squash with sugar, cinnamon and butter


chicken soup

omelet with spinach and suppresetto (the sliced sausages)

and here is my adobo!

proof that I actually cooked it hehe:

Will update this post as photos come along!

Updates:

I did cook sinigang, found some sinigang mix at the Asian store in Pittsburgh

Funny how Mike didn’t know how to use spoon and fork together to eat rice with soup. Later, he gave up and poured the rice into the bowl of soup, and used the spoon. Hehe!

Gumbo tasted really great with rice. Mike later put all the leftover rice into the gumbo to make it thicker.
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Some sort of pasta (I forgot what it’s called hehe. Mike, help me recall what this was?)

And finally, the choco chip cookies that Mike and I made to take back home to Lex. They actually lasted 2 weeks when I went back home to the Philippines. It was delliciouuus! (I hope I can bake some here too)


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Longest trip ever

I’m on my second day of my “grand vacation”, but heck, I had to pay a huge price (literally and figuratively) just to get to where I am now.

We have been planning and preparing for my trip to visit the family since around 6 months ago. I got my visa (yey!), then booked my flight (I chose the one with the shortest travel and layover time), and all was well. Until I got to the airport for my actual trip on Sept. 21 in Manila.

I wondered why I wasn’t really feeling excited about going to the US for the first time. I have packed my bags just a few days before the trip, and I didn’t really plan on doing any shopping (sorry ladies!). I was up very early to be at the airport by 4 AM. When I finally got on line to check in my baggage, there were Delta personnel going around and were talking to the passengers one by one. I overheard that the other flight to the US has been delayed for 7 hours, so I was hoping mine wasn’t delayed as well. Then when they reached me, they said “sorry, your flight has been cancelled due to the typhoon in Japan…” OH MY GOSH!!! Seriously???

They said I can rebook my flight for free (no kidding?), and gave me a number to call. It was 4 AM and I have to wait till 8 AM to call that freaking Delta reservation office. Come on!

So I just decided to go back home and figure out what to do there, since the airport was so crowded with stranded passengers who don’t have anywhere else to go. It’s a good thing I live in the city. I got home before 5 AM, and I thought I was gonna have to push my trip back for 2-3 days. I logged on to the Delta website to check my itinerary, and wow, they finally updated the status to “CANCELLED”, after I got home! I checked that itinerary 5 hours before I went to the airport! And they already knew about the typhoon in Japan, it didn’t just appear there 2 hours ago. SO I got upset again for the late notification. I tried to look for available flights for Thursday and Friday, but I couldn’t find one. Geez.

Then I remembered that the other flight to Dulles was delayed that day (Wed). So I checked that out and it turned out that I can still make it at 10 AM to the airport since the flight has been delayed to 1:30 PM. I booked that one and I got in! Yes! After confirming my booking, I decided to take a rest and just check the status again a few minutes before I leave, just to be sure, in case they already canceled it.

But it was almost 10 AM and the flight was still not canceled. SO I went back to the airport anc checked in my bag. I made a boo-boo at the immigration, which I eventually “solved” and finally got through. I waited till past 1 PM to finally get on board the plane. I was on my way!

The flight was okay, it was hard to sleep at the economy coach, but who was I to complain. There were lots of food so that compensated for the lack of sleep. When we landed in Nagoya, Japan, there was no trace of rain in the airport at all. But my Japanese seatmate said the typhoon was realy bad. I ordered coffee at a starbucks in the airport (300 plus Yen for a tall Cafe Americano), and as soon as I started sipping, they announced that we had to board the plane again.

The flight to Detroit was long, and I slept, ate and slept again not knowing what time it was. We had “dinner” while the sun was rising, and breakfast on the same day. When we landed in Detroit, we had to line up at immigration for fingerprinting and customs check. The line was long, and we were worried about our connecting flight, which was supposed to be an hour away. As soon as I got through the customs check, the airport personnel told me to go run and catch the connecting flight to DC NOW! They gave me a boarding pass, had me push my cart at the side, and I ran. My gosh, what an experience! Detroit international airport is so HUGE! As soon as I got to the gate, I knew I had to stay for the night. The gate was closed and we just missed our flight. I stood there with 4 other Filipinos who was on the same delayed flight from Manila.

We started talking to each other and went to the help desk to figure out what is in store for us. The Delta staff gave us new boarding passes for the first flight the next day, and gave us discount vouchers for a hotel. No free accomodations here. I was a little upset but I was so tired to get into a discussion with an airport staff. I thought, I’ll just spend for hotel to get a shower and actually get a real bed to sleep on. The 4 of us decided to share rooms to split the cost.

The next day, we finally got to the airport relaxed and on time. I got to DC and met my relatives, and said goodbye to my new found friends :)

So there, that was how my trip went. I am still catching up on sleep, but I am finally excited that I am here! :)

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